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Why is Self-Kindness So Challenging?

March 20, 2019

Why do we find it so hard to be kind to ourselves? What is it we're afraid of? We deprive ourselves when we make self-kindness the last thing on our agenda. And we deprive the ones we love of the best we have to offer them. Because how we love ourselves is how we love others.  What is self-kindness? Self-kindness is looking in the mirror and finding something we like today rather than hacking … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Anxiety, Self esteem, Self-care, stress Tagged With: self-compassion, self-esteem, slef-kindness

Why Self-Love is a Necessary Part of Loving Others

December 16, 2018

"Your problem is you’re too busy holding onto your unworthiness.”
- Ram Dass If you had asked me a decade ago whether I loved myself the question would have baffled me. Self-love? What does that even mean? Does anyone really love themselves? And if they do, isn't that the bedrock of egoism and navel gazing? It wouldn't have taken me long to give you an answer; that is, if I was feeling like … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Anxiety, Depression, Relationships, Self esteem, Self-care, stress Tagged With: brene brown, connection, counseling, counselling, gabor mate, interpersonal, Intimacy, kristin neff, love, relationships, self care, self-compassion, self-hatred, self-intimacy

Why Facing Your Biggest Fear Will Be Your Greatest Breakthrough

March 6, 2018

When my ex-husband and I separated a few years ago my biggest fear was loneliness. Push me out of a plane (parachute attached of course); dangle me from a 2,000 ft tall building (knock me out first), but please God don't let me be alone. It seems God is messing with me though, because here I am, facing my worst fear, the one I've spent a lifetime avoiding. Don't we always eventually come … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Anxiety, Depression, Relationships, Self esteem Tagged With: anxiety, depression, fear

How to Make Peace with your Body

March 6, 2018

**Disclaimer: this article is not intended for persons dealing with eating disorders.** I've struggled with my body image since the age of 10. Whether I've actually been overweight or, in the eyes of the world, "skinny," my self-perception has always been fat...fat...fat. I think I've actually been called "fat" only once. I was about twelve and it stung like nothing had ever stung before. No … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Anxiety, Body Image, Depression, Journaling, Self esteem, Self-care Tagged With: Body Image, fat, journal therapy, journaling, self-esteem, weight

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